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NTF : December 13th 2010
Dear Carolin, After astring of rejections and bad dates, I’m starting to wonder if there’ssomething wrong with me? I definitely wouldn’tcall myself unattractive. Ye s, no one is perfect, but Idon’tthink I’m exactly the Hunchback of Notre Dame. But everyguy Imeet lately never seems to be bothered. Icontinue to have men lined up, but each one never messages, never calls, or he’ll ask me on adate and never follow up. The reason why Ikeep afew on the go is because if I put all my eggs in one basket, I’m sure to be disappointed. It’ssofrustrating. Ifeel like Igive it my all and am willing to be open and get to know a person, but Iwonder now if I’m just coming across as desperate? Should Itake aman break and get in touch with my inner-self again? –Lost in Translation Dear Lost, Yo uare in averygood place right now.You have realised it is something YOUdothat is stopping you from finding love, and you have stopped blaming the guys. There is a difference between “there’ssomething wrong with me” and “I’m doing something wrong”. YOUare perfect, but it sounds like you are acting in away that attracts the wrong men and scares the right ones away.Maybe you send mixed signals, based on you not feeling perfect? Sometimes fear is making us do crazy things –like appearing desperate. Maybe we talk too much or too little. Perhaps we sound selfish or not interested in committing. Sometimes we trytobesexy even if we rather want to settle down. Communication is complicated, because what you say is not always what they hear.Guys pick up on your energy,and they can sense that you are not ready. Yo usee guys like eggs in abasket instead of looking for your soul mate. Yo uwant someone –anyone –instead of HIM. Now you are in agood place, because you are frustrated and have realised you have the power to change everything by changing yourself. Define what you want, and then start acting as if you were someone’sgirlfriend. How would you walk, dress, talk, connect? Iamsure your body will change when your mind is changing. Act as if you are already where you wish to be, and that will take you there. Elite athletes do this all the time. They visualise how they succeed, and that in itself helps them get there. Yo ucan do this as well. Yo uare perfect, and worthy of love. When you see that, others will too. CAROLIN DAHLMAN THE LOVE COACHthelovecoach.info Do you have aquestion for our Love Coach, Carolin? Send it to firstname.lastname@example.org and if yours is published, you’ll receive a $100 gift voucher from Laser Clinics Australia. Confidentiality assured. Visit laserclinicsaustralia.com.au or 1800 LASER1. AgonyAunt ONE STOP CHRISTMAS SHOP CLOSING DOWN SALE Spiral Rope Light Tr ees $29 2For $49 Assorted LED Path Poles $29 set of 4or 2sets for $49 Solar LED Lights from $7 LED Lights 10m Straight Strand $29 10m Icicles $59 LED Animated Reindeer Set of 2 Wa s$249 NOW $199 Large Merry Christmas Wa s$89 NOW $69 Rope light motifs from $18 Indoor Cherry Lights Was $12 NOW $8 FRESH TREE STANDS ALSO AVAILABLE INSTORE ® 105 McEVOY ST ALEXANDRIA Cnr Brennan St FORESTWAY FRESH FRUIT MARKET Cnr Mona Vale Rd & Forestway Te rrey Hills offMyoora Rd 0431 232 232 744 PITTWATER RD BROOKVALE Cnr Mitchell Rd Next to McDonalds SEE OUR HUGE INSTORE RANGE OF •TINSEL •WREATHS •TABLE DISPLAYS •TREE DECORATIONS •STOCKINGS &FILLERS •CHRISTMAS PLUSH TOYS •CHRISTMAS KITCHENWARE •SANTASUITS,ELVES &COSTUMES •FIBRE OPTIC VILLIAGE DISPLAYS Light up your home and SAVE! See our large selection of artificial, fibreoptic &led trees! LIGHTS,TREES,DECORATIONS, NOVELTIES &MUCH MUCH MORE! 881 South Dowling St MOORE PA RK Opposite Supacentre OPEN 7DAYS, 9AM -6PM, EVERYDAY UNTIL SOLD OUT Ph: 0431 232 232 www.onestopchristmasshop.com.au FRESH TREE STANDS ALSO AVAILABLE INSTORE FRESH TREE STANDS ALSO AVAILABLE INSTORE FRESH CUT U S A STYLE CHRISTMAS TREES AVAILABLE NOW Te rrey Hills &Alexandria Only HURRYINSTORE, SPECIALS AVAILABLE ONLYWHILE STOCKS LAST! CLOSING DOWN SALE CLOSING DOWN SALE CLOSING DOWN SALE CLOSING DOWN SALE UP TO 70% OFF 1345691A 38
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