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NTF : December 6th 2010
CAROLIN DAHLMAN THE LOVE COACHthelovecoach.info Do you have aquestion for our Love Coach, Carolin? Send it to email@example.com and if yours is published, you’ll receive a $100 gift voucher from Laser Clinics Australia. Confidentiality assured. Visit laserclinicsaustralia.com.au or 1800 LASER1. AgonyAunt Dear Agony Aunt, Just giving you an update of our reunion last week! He brought some friends along on the night and Igot the feeling he was using them to test if Iwould flirt with them. Ithink Ipassed the test because Ididn’tdance with any of his friends. At the end of the night he walked me to the train station and asked for akiss. He admitted that he was attracted to me but deep down he is really shy.Hesaid he might come back to Sydney soon or Ican go to Melbourne we can have fun at the beach. We kissed and then Iran because Inearly missed the train. He was there looking at me until Iwas out of his sight. We were supposed to meet again before he headed to the airport but he couldn’t make it. Imiss him badly ...wehaven’temailed since then. Idon’tknow when can Iemail him again, because I don’twant to look desperate. What should Idointhis situation? –Long-distance lover (Find Long-distance lover’soriginal question in our digital edition at ninetofive.com.au . Search forOctober 11 edition.) Dear Long-distance, Dear,Iamhappy you got anight with him and got to be kissed. Nothing like aromantic evening like that. At this point Ithink you should enjoy the memoryand feel good about being attractive, of having had butterflies in your belly and alove storytothink back at. However,I still wonder what you are really looking for? Do you want ahusband, aboyfriend, asoul mate or afling? Is your goal arelationship or attention —romance or sex —love or lust? It’ssoeasy to be distracted sometimes, when someone comes along and sweeps us off our feet. It’ssoeasy to be led astray from our goal. Ibelieve this man can give you aquick self-esteem kick, and perhaps if you wait long enough he might have handled his issues and is ready to commit. But is he there yet? If you ask your wise gut for advice, what does it tell you? He is committing to “have fun at the beach”. Imight be wrong, but to me it sounds like he is still unavailable. Can you promise me to pen down what you dream about, and what kind of man and relationship you want? Write what you wish to feel when being someone’s girlfriend. Describe your dream life in detail. Dare to dream big and see in front of you what you think you deserve to have. Yousettle for scrubs now.Alot of women do —because they lose sight of what they really want, and because they don’tthink they are worth more. Isense he is interested. But is he interested enough? Do you have anything to lose by sending him amessage though? What if he is thinking the same thing, waiting for you? MON-SUN 10AM -6PM (THU TILL 9PM) SHOP 1-184/186 OXFORD ST -PADDINGTON (OPPOSITE ARMY BARRACKS) PREVIEW INTERNATIONAL FA SHION COLLECTIONS CLEARANCE POP-UP STORE /ONE MONTH ONLY! 5PREVIEW and more 50
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